{"id":1164,"date":"2019-10-02T17:31:37","date_gmt":"2019-10-02T22:31:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/?p=1164"},"modified":"2019-10-02T17:31:39","modified_gmt":"2019-10-02T22:31:39","slug":"if-being-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/?p=1164","title":{"rendered":"if being alone&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>if being alone<br>can teach you anything<br>let it teach you&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>how to be resilient<br>when you need it most\u00a0<br><br>how to move on<br>when there\u2019s nothing left to wait for\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>how to rely on yourself<br>because no one else is there&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>how to accept that what\u2019s meant for you&nbsp;<br>won\u2019t reach you while you\u2019re waiting for something else&nbsp;<br><br>how to be confident<br>standing out in a crowd&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>how to accept yourself<br>without approval from those around you<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>how to let go<br>and wait to see what magic unfolds<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>but above all<br>let the loneliness teach you how to value yourself&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>before handing yourself over&nbsp;<br>to everyone else&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-keep shining<br><br>Find me:  <br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/secretsofsw\/\">Facebook<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Secrets_SW\">Twitter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/melwill23\/\">Instagram<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/melkai11\/social-work\/\">Pinterest<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>if being alonecan teach you anythinglet it teach you&nbsp; how to be resilientwhen you need it most\u00a0 how to move onwhen there\u2019s nothing left to wait for\u00a0 how to rely on yourselfbecause no one else is there&nbsp; how to accept that what\u2019s meant for you&nbsp;won\u2019t reach you while you\u2019re waiting for something else&nbsp; how to be confidentstanding out in a crowd&nbsp; how to accept yourselfwithout approval from those around you how to let goand wait [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1169,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[419],"tags":[131,492,440,297,494,296,493,459,54,495,457,320,321,412,96,97,74,86,472,496],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1164"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1164"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1164\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1172,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1164\/revisions\/1172"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1169"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}