{"id":1189,"date":"2019-12-01T19:49:56","date_gmt":"2019-12-02T01:49:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/?p=1189"},"modified":"2020-03-05T14:55:22","modified_gmt":"2020-03-05T20:55:22","slug":"but-you-gain-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/?p=1189","title":{"rendered":"But you gain yourself."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>People may leave when you&#8230;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Set boundaries&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop saving them&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Know your own worth <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quit doing their emotional work&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask them to leave their comfort zone&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stand up for yourself&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop searching for their validation<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Put your happiness before theirs&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find your power&nbsp;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tell them how you feel&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Challenge them&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-keep shining <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find me:  <br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/secretsofsw\/\">Facebook<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Secrets_SW\">Twitter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/melwill23\/\">Instagram<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/melkai11\/social-work\/\">Pinterest<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"812\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/58380936-9150-47BB-8DCF-DDBD11A1D620-812x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1191\" srcset=\"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/58380936-9150-47BB-8DCF-DDBD11A1D620-812x1024.jpeg 812w, http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/58380936-9150-47BB-8DCF-DDBD11A1D620-238x300.jpeg 238w, http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/58380936-9150-47BB-8DCF-DDBD11A1D620-768x968.jpeg 768w, http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/58380936-9150-47BB-8DCF-DDBD11A1D620-676x852.jpeg 676w, http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/58380936-9150-47BB-8DCF-DDBD11A1D620.jpeg 895w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 812px) 100vw, 812px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People may leave when you&#8230;&nbsp; Set boundaries&nbsp; Stop saving them&nbsp; Know your own worth Quit doing their emotional work&nbsp; Ask them to leave their comfort zone&nbsp; Stand up for yourself&nbsp; Stop searching for their validation Put your happiness before theirs&nbsp; Find your power&nbsp; Tell them how you feel&nbsp; Challenge them&nbsp; -keep shining Find me: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[344,342],"tags":[33,440,505,105,70,424,96,190,86],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1189"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1189"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1189\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1198,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1189\/revisions\/1198"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/swsecrets.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}